Friday, October 17, 2008

Rejection is normal

You know it's not really easy to do iii business... It's quite tough to ask for a business card and collect a fee and say thank you. Some of us fear the word "NO, I don't want", we fear rejection. Funny, how people react when they have to approach people for money, it's like as if they want to cheat a friend. You must get rid of the idea that you want to cheat a friend of his money... Think of it as you want to assist him to promote his sales, promote his products and he or she will be able to see that in your eyes!! in your speech, in your body language.

Well, some would prefer to hide themselves in the job, not matter how tough it is they don't mind but they fear more of rejection.


While some would prefer to bury themselves under people's arms rather then fear the word "NO"


While some would rather look the other way and let them pay from behind and let people decide how much they are willing to pay while you stand and accept your fate.

and the worse of all are those who would bury themselves under and suffocate just to make a living...
All I ask of you is to ASK if they want your service... That's all...
There is nothing to fear when they say NO !
It is a normal thing when people say no to you.
if everyone you meet were to say "YES"
I don't need you to be in iii business...
Infact, there will be no business at all if everyone were to say yes.. everytime :)
Think about it...

2 comments:

Jing Jing said...

is it too many ppl like me under iii. i read anger in ur post...O.O"

Qsecofr/idolhunter said...

hahaha... no. it's not you alone.. it's almost everybody. Nobody likes rejection and most people fear rejection bu when we remind ourselves of this often, it becomes normal and we will keep on doing what we have to do and get rejected but we don't mind being rejected once we understands that it's only normal to have rejections.